I'm coming into a new realization about sexuality and gender. I few days ago I came out as gender queer on facebook, I asked for people to call me Bri instead of Brianne, I asked to change my pronouns to they/them/their, this was all scary. I was questioned twice about the grammatical conundrum when it comes to using a plural as a singular, but to that I respond if it makes a human being more comfortable then what matters more, perceived grammar infarctions or someone's self esteem.

I'm going to try to be very honest in these posts, I'm still trying to figure out who I am. I thought I was a lesbian for a long time, I also thought I was solely a woman. I was wrong. I identify as pansexual now, gender doesn't matter to me, it's love and acceptance that is important. I even have a little crush on someone, which almost never ends well for me, but who knows? 

I've started wearing a binder, but I still want to wear dresses. I like my flannel as much as the next dude, but lace is fun too. I have never been more confident. I have never felt better about my body. 

I don't want to be pinned down. Gender is a spectrum. Attraction is a spectrum. 

This post is terrifying to me please be nice.